tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36365129.post116493106629619945..comments2023-03-29T06:48:13.675-07:00Comments on Going Berserk: The Queen of AvoidanceMom2BJM(Amy)http://www.blogger.com/profile/11516317235328281892noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36365129.post-1165263565346631542006-12-04T12:19:00.000-08:002006-12-04T12:19:00.000-08:00I also avoid making phone calls. I wait to RSVP t...I also avoid making phone calls. I wait to RSVP to things til the last minute. I suck.<BR/><BR/>Sounds like the lunch was a fiasco from the get-go. Remember, Dad doesn't need to be stressed more than he already is. Your anger at your SIL & the future step-mom probably was warranted, but telling your dad you were angry probably didn't accomplish anything other than making him feel bad. I know when I get angry, 75% of the time it's not worth stressing the people involved. The other 25% of the time, I just need to be careful about who and how to direct my anger toward.<BR/><BR/>Kim<----realizes she just gave totally unsolicited advice.kim (weltek)https://www.blogger.com/profile/17262304689049371399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36365129.post-1165102437792304502006-12-02T15:33:00.000-08:002006-12-02T15:33:00.000-08:00I avoid any possible conflict. I bury my head in t...I avoid any possible conflict. I bury my head in the sand and pretend it's not there. I'll worry about it tomorrow. Just call me Scarlett O'Hara.Puffyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04677480254325191072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36365129.post-1164992158671538362006-12-01T08:55:00.000-08:002006-12-01T08:55:00.000-08:00Mom, I avoid phone calls too, especially if I have...Mom, I avoid phone calls too, especially if I have to ask for something.<BR/><BR/>I also avoid opening my mail and balancing my checkbook. Too depressing! :)mtwhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11629960610797466429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36365129.post-1164978872946082102006-12-01T05:14:00.000-08:002006-12-01T05:14:00.000-08:00Cyg? Yes!!Thanks MM! Yes, it is just kinda hard ...Cyg? Yes!!<BR/><BR/>Thanks MM! Yes, it is just kinda hard - not sure what to say. I don't feel like I can be all friendly with her just yet..Mom2BJM(Amy)https://www.blogger.com/profile/11516317235328281892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36365129.post-1164965507221110162006-12-01T01:31:00.000-08:002006-12-01T01:31:00.000-08:00Yikes, that sounds uncomfortable! Maybe after you ...Yikes, that sounds uncomfortable! Maybe after you are forced (more Holidays) to be around her, everything will fall into place. <BR/><BR/>{{hugs}}mmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17554424331241461872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36365129.post-1164947519106518232006-11-30T20:31:00.000-08:002006-11-30T20:31:00.000-08:00I avoid cleaning the office where I type this.(I'm...I avoid cleaning the office where I type this.<BR/><BR/>(I'm here. You happy now?)Paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12423691524148589916noreply@blogger.com